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Horse Shopping
August 31, 2010
Horse shopping is hard. The idea of going around and trying
lots of different horses may sound like fun, but it is exhausting
mentally as you go through the checklist of requirements searching
for the "one". Currently I'm not shopping for a horse
myself, but rather am helping a friend look for a horse and
am searching for horses for a therapeutic riding program. We're
looking for long term horses, not projects that will be resold.
So not only are there physical attributes, but the emotional
ones as well. Will you be able to live with this horse for a
long time? It's a relationship just like you have with a close
friend or spouse. Of course if it doesn't work out you can always
sell the horse, but that's really not the direction we want
to go. We start the search with our budget and criteria but
we quickly realize that we're not going to get everything on
our list in our budget. So we begin to negotiate with ourselves
- what we absolutely have to have and what we can look past.
It's relatively easy to figure out if the horse is NOT what
you want, but how can you decide if it's the right horse after
only two or three rides? You do the best you can with the information
presented to you and go with your gut instinct. I've found that
it won't steer you wrong, but in the end it's all a gamble.
You take a leap of faith that the horse will be good physically
and mentally and will suit your needs. Hopefully it will work
out for the best, but saying "Yes, this is the right horse"
is tough. For all of you horse shoppers out there, I feel your
pain. Good luck and try to enjoy the journey.
Cheers!
Dressage Clinic with Steffen Peters
August 23, 2010
I had the good fortune of attending the second day of the Steffen
Peters clinic held at Hassler Dressage on August 21 and 22.
I'm sorry I wasn't able to attend the first day since apparently
he rode more of the horses that day. But still, I enjoyed myself
immensely just being able to watch one day. Despite periods
of heavy rain, the day was a success. It was great fun to see
Steffen so close to his WEG competition. The rider/horse combinations
were all fourth level and above, and even though I'm not that
level of rider, I was still able to gain plenty of insight from
the clinic.
Before the lunch break, Steffen took some questions from the
auditors. There were a wide variety of questions, but here are
the main points I took out of that session.
· Don't make any movement too complicated.
· The horse should yield to the most minimum pressure.
If there is no response, make your point immediately.
· Keep your standards high, but simple.
· Preserve the horse by not overschooling movements.
· Anything you force into a horse at a young age, you
will have to force out at a later time.
· The horse should stay even on both legs and both reins.
· It's all about opposites. If the horse is too low,
ride him higher. If he is too quick, slow him down, etc.
· Frustration and fear in the rider can lead to aggression.
· On showing, he said to try and make it as positive
an experience as you can.
· He finished talking briefly about the pressures of
showing. First there are expectations you put on yourself and
your horse. Then there are expectations of others (in his case
he mentioned horse owners, the U.S. team and even the country),
but we have to listen to the horse. It is important to do what
is best for the horse so you both can have a positive experience.
And of Ravel, he simply said, "I can't thank my horse enough."
We ended the day with a huge cheer of good luck for Steffen
and Ravel at the upcoming World Equestrian Games. But no pressure
Cheers!
If I Knew Then What I Know Now...
July 22, 2010
I stumbled upon this great list published by the Maryland
Horse Council while doing some research. It is a bit funny
but at the same time oh so true. If you are just starting out
in the horse business, or thinking about getting started, keep
these ideas in mind. If you are an experienced equine business
owner, it's a good checklist to see if your business is operating
as well as it could. And if you happen to live in Maryland,
consider joining the Maryland Horse Council. They do a lot of
work for horses and horse owners in the state.
The Top 10 Things Owners Wish They Had Known BEFORE They
Started Their Horse or Horse-Related Business
10. That most other barn owners are willing to support
a new barn owner and give them advice.
9. That I could buy in bulk.
8. The reality of Labor Laws, and how Ag Labor Laws are
different.
7. The necessity for good bookkeeping and for an accountant
who understands the horse business.
6. The difference between an expense and a cost.
5. The importance of both a business plan and a marketing
plan.
4. The importance of forming a business or corporate
entity.
3. How much and all the various types of
insurance needed to own any business, but particularly a horse
business.
2. That the people are more destructive to a farm than the
horses.
and the number one thing?
1. That I no longer will have quality time with my horse!
(a.k.a. The number of hours it would really take to run
my business.)
Your Working Space
July 12, 2010
My office has been bugging me. It's way too disorganized and
cluttered. I keep telling myself that I should take one day
and get it organized but then I don't feel like I'm doing the
work necessary to produce income. On the other hand, I know
I would be more productive in a better environment. It's a viscous
circle. But with a possible new business venture on the horizon
I think it's time for a cleaning day. Out with the old and in
with the new I suppose. Are you working out of a home office?
If so, here are some tips I found that you might find handy.
1. Write goals down It's so easy to get distracted and
with no boss looking over your shoulder, it's also easy to let
yourself off the hook. Keeping your calander in front of you
as well as a daily list of tasks helps keep you focused. When
you finish a task, scratch it off your list. That's a great
feeling!
2. Stay away from email, the phone, Facebook, etc. - Constant
interruptions are not good for a writer. Maybe when you're researching
but not when it gets down to cranking out that article under
a deadline. Keep your message reading to certain times.
3. Tidy office Working surrounded by piles of papers
and month-old to-do lists will only drag you down. Have a big
tidy up once a week and youll feel so much better. (I'm
really going to try to stick to this one.)
4. Music This is not for everyone, but if it keeps you
motivated then go for it. I personally work in silence most
of the time.
5. Daily Schedule Even though you are working from home
and dont have to follow the usual office rules, try and
set a daily plan for yourself. Start at the same time, have
lunch at a set time, etc. It helps to have a daily routine.
6. Just Start Have a job you really don't want to do?
Try to get it done first thing. Scratching that one off your
list feels like a weight being lifted off your shoulders and
brightens up your day.
7. Close your door If there are distractions at home,
like people watching TV or noisy kids, make it a rule to not
be disturbed when your door is shut.
Even More Ideas
July 5, 2010
As you can see from this post and last week's post, I've been
spending more and more time generating ideas for myself and
at the request of magazine editors. Every week I need to come
up with a fresh list of ideas. At first I was a bit worried
that I would run out, but actually I think I'll have plenty
to last a long time. An exercise I just learned to help determine
what "job" you could pursue is also a good one for
generating ideas. Try listing out everything that comes to mind
that interests you. Don't worry about being broad. You can start
with one large topic and then think about what specifically
can come from that. Then make a list of the major tasks you
have done in your current and previous jobs or tasks you would
like to pursue. Look at those lists and see where you can generate
ideas. Consider combining the lists to come up with even more
options. Here's just a random sampling from me.
Topics of interest: horses, horse racing, dressage, chocolate,
music, Impressionist art, European travel, hiking, skiing, reading,
designer fashion, wine, cheese, Mexican food, volunteer work.
Job responsibilities: writing magazine articles, producing
newsletters, presenting to writing groups, reading to children,
grantwriting, data entry, customer service
Multiple ideas can come from every one of those topics. Then
you can even combine them. For example, you can pitch grantwriting
tips to nonprofit equine organizations, write about volunteering
for children's groups, the best places to ski in Europe and
pairing wines with cheese. Hmmm...there are some good ideas
here that I'll have to add to my own ongoing list.
Cheers!
A World Full of Ideas
June 28, 2010
When your goal is to generate numerous ideas every week, just
where do all those topics come from? Why from real life of course.
The sayings "Truth is stranger than fiction" and (as
my husband is fond of saying) "You can't make this stuff
up" are both completely true. The best ideas come from
what happens in our everyday lives. Many of my horse topics
come from my own experiences and desire to learn more. When
my first horse died as a result of botulism, I didn't know much
about the disease. Several articles came out of that one scenario.
I also generated features on building your own run-in shed because
of the shed my husband and I constructed. Then from time to
time I will have other people in the horse industry request
an article on a certain topic that they want to learn more about
because of circumstances that have happened to them.
I also carry a notebook with me to jot down ideas and bits
of conversation as they happen. Now, I'm not advocating eavesdropping
on other people, but there are circumstances that occur that
make it hard not to overhear. The following are two of my favorite
quotes I have stored away for future use. "Don't ever leave
me on a bench with your mother again," a wife said to her
husband in an amusement park. The second was a man at the racetrack
who said to his wife/girlfriend "If I just win this race
we'll have enough money to pay the rent." Both quotes elicit
a distinct emotional response and are really good.
In addition, I get article ideas from conversations with other
people. Just last week I was talking to someone who lost his
job last year. He and several other people who worked in the
same profession but also were laid off starting meeting informally
but now it has turned into a monthly support group meeting.
I thought that was a great idea to write about in a magazine
article. Briefly profile the men in this group followed by tips
on how to get past the anger, frustration and depression that
comes with losing your job.
The bottom line is that ideas are literally everywhere you
go. Everyone you encounter has a story to tell. The key is to
take the time to see who and what's around you. Tune into the
world with your senses and be aware of your surroundings. If
not you miss so much.
Cheers!
Getting Motivated
June 22, 2010
I noticed that I haven't written on this blog for over a month.
Ugh... I knew I got away from it but I didn't think it had been
that long. Somewhere along the line I lost my motivation. At
the same time I also lost motivation for exercise, but I seemed
to increase my desire for eating and drinking. Not a good combination.
Next thing I know I've gained weight, lost fitness and wondered
how it all happened so quickly. I find it tough to write without
motivation. Sure, when faced with a deadline I will sit down
and knock out the words, but they don't come easily or freely.
Every sentence is a struggle. I've been getting it done but
I know it hasn't been my best work.
Then last week I had one of those light bulb moments. For years
I said all I wanted to do was sit at my computer and write.
Well, recent events have made it such that being a full-time
writer could be a reality. Suddenly I was excited to get going.
This was my chance! When I began to put systems in place and
figure out how many queries and ideas I needed to produce in
a week to generate subsequent articles (and subsequently money),
it quickly dawned on me that this would not be so easy. It's
going to be quite challenging as a matter of fact. But now I'm
motivated and ready to take on the challenge. I've even gotten
back to exercising, but darn it I still want to eat and drink
too much.
Cheers!
Encouraging the Arts
May 17, 2010
Last week I sat down with a group of teens in the Teen Coffee
House group put together by the Williamsport Public Library.
This is one of numerous library sponsored teen and adult writing
groups I've talked to. Basically I give them some tips and allow
plenty of time for questions and discussion. More than anything
I want to be supportive and encourage all of them (especially
youngsters) to keep writing. It's amazing how much better people
feel knowing there's someone else out there that has been through
the same struggles.
I applaud the libraries for their attempts at cultivating young
writers and artists. They may have to play a larger role as
some public schools (including those in nearby Chambersburg,
PA) are curtailing their music and art programs. Now, I know
writing isn't on the chopping block as it is taught in English
classes. But I see creative writing, dance, music, theatre and
visual arts all intertwined. Heck, they are mixed in with the
more "traditional" studies as well. Learning rhythms
and time signatures in music is certainly mathematical. Quarter
note, half note, eighth note. These are all fractions, no? Designing
in perspectives use math and science skills as well. And kids
need the opportunity to find out where they excel. I learned
at a young age that words and music were my strong suits...not
drawing or painting. Unfortunately if schools are not able to
provide these opportunities, other places, such as the local
libraries, will have to or the arts (as well as all the future
artists) will suffer. So go support your local library and arts
council however you can.
Cheers!
Who are Your Neighbors?
May 3, 2010
This weekend's lesson for me was take time to get to know your
neighbors. In July 2010 my husband and I will have lived in
our current residence for 10 years. Other than my childhood
home, it's the longest I've lived in any one place. And I know
my neighbors. Well, at least I know who they are. Now granted,
we all live on acreage so our houses are not right on top of
each other. Our house sits back from the road so unless I go
to the road, which I do several times a day with my dog and
frequently riding my horse, it isn't simple to interact. We
smile and wave, say hello and chat briefly but mostly go about
our days in our own worlds. Then Saturday, I was signing Goats
with Coats at the Washington County Library's Reading Day at
the Valley Mall in Hagerstown. And wouldn't you know it but
also at that event was my neighbor, Austin Gisriel, who was
there with his first book, Safe At Home. Who knew he was also
a freelance writer? We laughed at the fact that we actually
did more than mow and weed whack. Austin had talked about forming
an informal writer's group in Williamsport but had no idea we
could do one in our own neighborhood! As if I needed any more
proof, it is indeed a small world and you have no idea how you
will make contacts with others. Had I taken the time to really
talk with my neighbor I probably would've found out about this
a long time ago, but I'm glad I learned about it now. Who knows
where this connection might eventually lead. I think I need
to go talk to my other neighbors.
Oh, and fellow writers need to stick together. You can learn
more about Austin's book Safe at Home and read his blog here.
Cheers!
Literacy for Children
April 26, 2010
Last week I had the good fortune to read Goats With Coats at
the Marshall Street School's first ever Literacy Night. It was
a lot of fun and I met some very kind people. In a time where
electronic gaming rules and writing has been reduced to LOL,
TTYL some may lose sight of literacy. Of course as a writer
I think it's very important and I love the idea of a literacy
night for young people. It's a great time for family, fellowship
and to learn something new. The school provided some great tips
that I thought were worth sharing. By doing just a few of these
we will help form the next generation of great writer.
Literacy Activities to do at Home:
- Read to your children before bedtime every night.
- Bake our favorite recipe and cook meals together.
- Tell stories to your children about when you were growing
up and about when they were born.
- Tell traditional stories about your culture.
- Play games together.
- Look at family photos together and talk about them.
- Take lots of pictures and do scrapbooking.
Tips for Parents on Reading:
- Let them see you reading.
- Share books together.
- Point out the print that is all around you. Look at street
signs, grocery store labels and posters.
- Choose a book from the library or from your home. It's even
better if you let your children choose.
- Take turns reading aloud or tell the story by looking at
the pictures.
- Talk about what's happening in the story.
- Help your children with difficult words.
- Praise your children for reading.
Tips for Parents on Writing
- Let your children watch when you do basic writing tasks
such as filling in forms, paying bills, writing birthday cards
and writing shopping lists.
- Let them put a scribble or drawing around their name on
a greeting card.
- Encourage them to scribble and draw (in appropriate places
of course!). This is the beginning stage of writing.
- Make sure you always have writing materials available. This
includes lots of paper, pens, pencils, crayons and markers,
old envelopes or greeting cards for kids to copy, little blank
books for children to make their stories and a box to keep
all the materials.
Good luck!
How Do You Think?
April 20, 2010
I think in words. I constantly have an internal dialogue going
through my head about what to say, how to say it, what words
I would use to describe something. (This doesn't make me crazy,
does it?) I find myself trying to anticipate the dialogue while
watching movies and TV. When I read, I take note of the words
used to create tone of voice and a sense of space. I can get
so involved in that aspect that I lose sight of simply reading
the story. My husband says that when he designs and draws he
sees everything in 3-D and can picture the completed project.
Picturing things in my mind is difficult. I was never good in
the spatial relationship portion of those standardized tests
we took in school. For me it's all words, which is I guess why
writing has always come easily to me. So one might think I learn
well by listening or reading, but that isn't the case. Sure,
I can read and understand a concept, but until I do the work
myself it isn't solidified into my brain. I am no doubt a kinesthetic
learner. Not sure what that means if anything, but I find it
fascinating how people think and how people learn. It's such
a challenge as a teacher to be able to determine a student's
learning style and develop methods to meet those needs, especially
if it is a style different from his/her own. And then when teaching
disabled individuals, like I do with therapeutic riding, it
can be even more challenging. In many cases these students can't
tell you how they think and how they learn so there ends up
being a lot of trial and error.
Give it some thought. How do you think? How do you learn? What
goes through your head and how do you visualize? Ask these same
questions to your family and friends. Chances are you will hear
lots of different answers and you may realize why some people
are talented in certain areas.
Cheers!
In Memory of Charisma
April 12, 2010
Fifteen years ago a yellow tulip was in bloom at Avery Ranch
in Colorado. That same day, a golden palomino filly was born
and, since the colors matched, was given the barn name of "Tulip".
Two years later I bought Tulip, whose registered name was now
Cowboy Charisma. I felt this dynamic filly needed a fancier
barn name so I called her Charisma. I spent ten wonderful years
with Charisma, and in that time she taught me more about horses
than I ever taught her about riding. Twelve years and one day
following her birth, I had to have Charisma put down because
of a chronic illness that was causing her to be in a great deal
of pain. Because she was insured, I was required to take her
to a facility where they could perform a necropsy. When my husband
and I returned from that sad journey a group of tulips had opened
up for the first time. They were all yellow. The last two years
this same group of yellow tulips bloomed first. Later we would
have other tulips of various colors open up, but the yellow
group stood alone. This year deer or rabbits or something ate
young tulip growth so it was obvious there would be no beautiful
flowers this year. But somehow a bulb got relocated and last
week two tulips opened. They are yellow so once again I am fortunate
to have my annual reminder that Charisma is still here in spirit.
I know that somewhere she is hanging out with her pony Minnie
and they are enjoying all green grass they want.
Rest in peace my friend.

Encouraging Others to be Creative
April 7, 2010
Yesterday I spent the day as a judge for the Washington County
Free Library's Easy Picture Book Contest. This is the second
year I've been asked to judge the entries. It is so fun to see
that there are indeed some very creative, talented individuals
out there. And it is equally good that the Library holds this
competition to showcase them. There are five divisions - 2nd
and 3rd grade, 4th and 5th grade, 6th to 8th grade, 9th to 12th
grade and adult. The vast majority of the entries come in the
first two categories, and some teachers make this a class project.
I'm a little sad that there weren't many entries in the 6th
to 8th grade division (although the quality was excellent) and
there were no entries in the high school division. I suppose
the reason for that is by that time kids are into so many activities
and unfortunately writing isn't one of them. I think back to
when I was in high school and that's when I did a lot of writing
- teenage angst of course but writing nonetheless. Could it
be they are all spending their time playing video games and
texting their friends? I don't have kids so I'm certainly not
the one to figure it out, but it still makes me sad. I am concerned
that people are leaving the arts behind. Here in Hagerstown,
MD they have the Barbara Ingram School for the Arts, a public
high school with (obviously) a strong arts emphasis. That is
a wonderful and I'm sure there are other schools out there like
it. Of course, I also wonder why no one from that school had
an entry, but I digress. I hope that we are able to keep the
arts in children's lives. If public schools cut them because
of budget issues I would hope that parents find a way to encourage
them. Kids have such wonderful imaginations and absorb information
like a sponge. When we get older it's very easy to lose that
creative edge. It needs to be developed and nurtured in young
people. Here's to opportunities like the Picture Book contest.
Cheers!
Random Horse Facts
March 29, 2010
I do the vast majority of my research online. I vaguely remember
the day when I had to go to the library and look up articles
and books and take notes directly from there. Then there was
interlibrary loan when the book I needed wasn't carried by my
local library. And now most everything is at our fingertips.
All we have to do is "Goggle it". Of course with the
advent of blogging and anyone being able to post whatever he/she
likes (kinda like this blog right here...) one has to be very
careful about what is used for sources. Using accurate, reliable
sources and fact checking should still be a vital part of research.
But it's also very easy to get distracted when you are researching
online. Invariably I will start clicking on interesting looking
links and before long I'm somewhere completely different from
where I started and where I should be. I guess it could be considered
online ADD. And one of those times I found some interesting
horse facts that I thought I'd share. Oh...and FYI...the source
that was sited there was The Encyclopedia of Horses and Ponies,
by Tamsin Pickeral.
- There are about 75 million horses in the world.
- Horses younger than 4 years can concentrate for about 10
to 15 minutes.
- Horses sleep 2 1/2 to 3 hours a day, but only lay down about
45 minutes a day.
- A horse has approximately 205 bones.
- There are over 350 breeds of horses and ponies.
- Horses have 2 blind spots. One is directly in front of them.
The other is directly behind them.
- Horses can drink up to 10 gallons of water per day.
Cheers!
Getting Started with Writing
March 22, 2010
Are you at the point where you want to have an article published?
Whether you are trying to break into a print or online venue,
established publications usually like to work with published
authors. So then how do you get established if no one will take
a chance and publish your work? It can be a frustrating catch
22. There are websites that will publish most any content, but
I'm not sure how much influence that would have for websites
and magazines that emphasize content that has been proofed and
fact-checked. A well written blog could certainly show people
that you have the technical skills and perhaps creativity, but
won't necessarily go into the depth that a publisher might need
for a specific article. Another option is to look for a magazine,
newsletter or newspaper (yes there are a few still in existence)
that would print your article for free or for a small fee. My
first publication was a brief story about a personal experience
I had. It went into a monthly newsletter, paid $10 and I was
thrilled! A piece published with your byline will start to give
you "clips" or examples of work that you can share
with a publisher.
It is also important to know where you are sending your article.
Research the magazine or website before submitting an idea.
Check to see if they have done a piece recently on your topic
and make sure it is appropriate for its target market. Many
publications have writer's guidelines on their websites. If
they do, read them and follow them to the letter. You could
also subscribe to Writer's
Market or purchase their annual guide. Do they want a query
letter submitted via regular mail? Will they accept ideas via
email? Do they want the entire manuscript or just the idea?
If you follow the specific guidelines exactly and send it to
the correct person, you will have a much better chance of being
considered. If you send an email to an entity that wants to
be contacted via mail, you will likely never hear from them.
And most people do not want to be called so don't even go there.
Becoming an established author usually takes time and patience.
Keep trying and eventually you will make it.
Cheers!
Arabian Racing - Did You Even Know Arabians Raced?
March 15, 2010
I've spent 17 years in the Arabian horse racing business, and
I still get that question a lot. Yes, Arabians race all over
the world actually. In the US they run in Michigan, California,
Delaware, Texas and Colorado. If you want to learn more, I suggest
checking out the Arabian
Jockey Club and Arabian
Racing Cup websites. Arabian racing is a niche market and
like horses, the Arabian breed and horse racing, they have had
their share of challenges the last few years. When the economy
takes away discretionary income, industries like racing and
horses can get hit hard. But still, I just returned from a weekend
in Houston, Texas for the 23rd annual Darley Awards ceremony.
This event recognizes the best horses and people involved in
Arabian racing - similar to the Eclipse Awards of the thoroughbred
world. And even in this down economy when people have sold their
horses, decreased their breeding and trimmed back their racing
stables, we had an excellent turnout of upbeat and enthusiastic
attendees. The Arabian racing industry is filled with some of
the best people you will find. They are very passionate about
their sport, but especially about their horses. And there is
a core, dedicated group that is determined to keep Arabian racing
in the United States alive and well and part of the international
racing scene. It is not an easy task, but in a world where companies
are closing every day, I still wouldn't bet against this resilient
(some might say stubborn) group of people.
Cheers!
Wear Your Helmet
March 8, 2010
This post is going to be short and to the point. I don't care
who you are. I don't care what type of riding you do. Wear a
helmet. Protect your head. It's the only one you have. Just
a few days ago, Olympic dressage rider Courtney King Dye was
seriously injured in a fall. She was schooling a young horse
that apparently tripped and fell, throwing Courtney. She suffered
a severe head injury. She was not wearing a helmet. Last year
I witnessed a much more dramatic fall where a rider was thrown
onto a pasture fence. She too fractured her skull but she was
wearing a helmet. It is likely that helmet saved her life. Years
ago a horse I was riding stopped going into a jump, and I went
head first into the fence. My helmet was scraped and dented.
My head was not. I walked away with nothing more than a few
cuts, scrapes and bruises. It was then that I truly understood
and appreciated the importance of a helmet.
I don't understand why people don't wear helmets. Yes they
can get hot. Yes they mess up your hair. But who really cares
about that when you consider the alternative? I would much rather
have "Helmet Head" than a fractured skull. Riding
is a high risk sport. Crazy things happen, and it doesn't matter
how good you are or how well trained your horse is. Things happen.
For those of us who love to ride, the risk will not keep us
off the back of a horse, but we should stop and think and take
steps to minimize our risk. It's as easy as snapping the chin
strap of our helmets. Please do that every time you ride.
My best wishes go out to Courtney King Dye that she makes a
complete recovery.
Marketing in the Horse Business
March 1, 2010
As I've been pondering ideas to expand my writing business,
I've been thinking along the lines of marketing and promotion
in the equine industry. So many people have cut out advertising
entirely thinking they can't afford it. It is true that you
can't afford not to. But sure, spend your money wisely. That's
why I've been playing with marketing packages that encompass
print and online media. Pieces that could be used interchangeably
to get maximum impact and exposure for a reasonable price. This
is not a new idea, but there are many in the horse business
that haven't taken advantage of all there is to offer. And now
more than ever is the time to step out. Think about it. Your
competitors have gone out of business, seriously reduced their
business or simply stopped advertising their business. But still
there is a demand for your services. If you professionally advertise
to your target market by choosing your spots carefully, and
no one else is out there, who's going to get the business? Why
you are of course. Makes sense to me! And I'm not the only one
thinking now is the perfect time to market your horse business.
It seems Paul Husband does too. I encourage you to check out
his Horse Dollars blog
post.
Writing for a Living
February 22, 2010
Once upon a time there seemed to be an unlimited supply of
avenues to get your work published - newspapers and magazines
galore. Well those times are gone. Many printed publications
have gone under and those that survive do so on shoestring budgets
from vastly reduced ad revenue. For the last 12 years, I've
been a freelance writer mostly dependent on writing for magazines
as a way to make a living. So now what's a girl to do? Find
new ways to generate income. I resisted blogging for a long
time (change is hard, you know), but so many writers are out
there that I finally caught on. I have been establishing this
blog (a comments section is coming soon) and have started to
develop connections which will hopefully give me the opportunity
to blog on other sites. This month I wrote my first short piece
for an online only newsletter. There will be more of those in
my future I'm sure. Because they are about half the length of
a feature magazine piece, they require less time and reseach,
but subsequently pay less as well. Still, that is the direction
publications are taking so it's adapt or get out.
I'm also spending time developing new marketing ideas for horse
professionals. These will be wonderful pieces farms and people
can use for printed flyers, advertisements, and as online information.
They will be versatile and equally visual whether printed out
or viewed on screen. The tough part here is convincing people
they still need to market their businesses. Like printed publications,
many people have shut down. Those who are still around have
stopped the majority of their advertising. To me, this means
it's a great time to get your name out there. Make your presence
known when no one else is. Makes sense right? I hope some people
will think so.
Thus my short term goals are to develop new, versitile products
for reasonable prices, learn to write for the market that's
out there and keep motoring along. Taking this as a challenge
instead of an obstacle will help me grow both as a successful
businesswoman and as a writer. No doubt I will end up figuring
out some of it as I go, but as long as there is a need for the
written word, I'll be out there writing it.
Cheers!
Making a Difference
February 16, 2010
I digress a bit this week from horses and writing. I've been
more and more frustrated with politics and the general public
complaining about this that or the other. I'm more of a doer
than a complainer (although one could say I'm complaining right
now. Hmmm...) At any rate, late last year I decided to turn
away from all the negative energy. I thought that if I could
focus on making life a little bit better in my small corner
of the universe, then maybe someone else would do the same in
theirs. That "Pay it Forward" concept. It might not
change the world but it would help someone, somewhere, and if
we all did that think of what a difference we could make! Well,
obviously this is not a unique idea. Through an online forum
I encountered Nate St. Pierre with itstartswith.us.
According to their website, their goal is to "build a global
community of individuals focused on making a positive impact
in the lives of the people around them. Each and every one of
us has the ability to change the world by touching lives in
this way. And when we hear stories about the positive things
others are doing, we become more aware of the opportunities
we have to make a difference for the people around us."
I checked them out, chatted online with Nate a bit and decided
to sign up for the "A-Team", an online group that
is committed to doing one 15 minute task each week to improve
someone else's life. We get our assignment via email then once
we do our thing, we go to the online community to post our results,
ask questions, and/or help others with their tasks. I just did
my first one this week and it was completely painless. What
an easy way to make a difference. I'm sure there are other sites
and groups out there doing similar work. It's all good. My challenge
to you is to check them out, find one you like and give it a
try. In that way we really all can make a difference one person
at a time.
A Labor of Love
February 8, 2010
Keeping animals at home is both a blessing and a curse. At
my place I have horses and goats. My main focus on this post
is horses, but you can insert any form of livestock wherever
I write the word "horse". This weekend was our second
one this year where we've dealt with over 2 feet of snow. While
I read and see pictures of people skiing, building snowmen,
having snowball fights, my husband and I are out shoveling and
clearing for hours. The same thing happens in the summer. When
people are sitting by the pool or at the lake we are out mowing
and weed wacking. It's all part of the job. Non-horse people
are amazed I'm the size I am when they see what I eat. Spend
a week in my shoes, I tell them, and you'll understand. I chuckle
to myself when I hear non-horse owners tell me how they'd love
to have a farm and keep horses. They imagine the fun of walking
out the door and riding their horse or the beauty of watching
them in the pasture. And I agree. I love being able to just
go out and ride and my two black horses were gorgeous running
through the virgin powder yesterday. But it comes with a price
and one you must be willing to pay. I have cared for horses
during blizzards, a hurricane, when tornados have been in the
area, flooding rains, ice, during winds in excess of 90 mph,
when the temperatures have been more than 20 below zero and
well over 100. I've cared for horses while suffering from kidney
stones, the flu and on crutches. These things don't make me
special or important. Ask anyone who cares for livestock and
they'll tell you the same thing. It's what you have to do unless
you are wealthy enough to hire help. And don't even get me started
on trying to go away. That adds a whole new element to the situation.
So if you are considering buying your own farm think long and
hard about how much work you are willing to do and how much
time you have to commit to it. It is wonderful and I do love
it, which is why I'm out there tromping in snow up over my knees
to get to the barn. And now if you'll excuse me, I have to go
stock up on supplies before the next storm hits tomorrow.
Finding Inspiration
February 1, 2010
I'm often curious how people come up with ideas. As writers,
we are always having to come up with new ideas, whether it is
for a regular column, series of articles or character development
for a book. So I ask people how they do it, and most people
tell me their best thoughts occur when they are doing something
mundane. For one friend it is cleaning the house. For another
it is driving. Okay, driving probably shouldn't be considered
a mundane task, but when you're on the highway with the cruise
control set and have a long drive ahead of you your mind wanders.
I've heard of people waking up with a brilliant idea. They keep
a notepad by their bed so they can jot it down right away. Me
personally? I agree that driving has given me my share of ideas.
Quite often, however, my greatest moments of clarity come when
I'm cleaning stalls - a mundane task to be sure - and walking
the dog. Whatever works for you, the key is that we are not
overwhelmed by outside stimuli. As we go through our daily lives,
we are constantly being bombarded by noise, ads, demands from
others, the list goes on and on. When we get away from that
and do something like mop the floor, our conscious mind tends
to go on autopilot and it allows our subconscious to creep in.
So the next time you have to come up with a brilliant idea,
go do something mundane and see what magic is created.
Remember Letter Writing?
January 25, 2010
I am a member of Generation X. I consider it a crossover generation.
We lived in a time B.C. (before computers) so we remember things
like typewriters and hand writing letters. I can still remember
the anticipation I experienced waiting for a letter to arrive
from a special person. But today we are swept up in a world
of texting, blogging and social networking. It's easy and convenient
to send an email or text, but there is a large segment of our
population that doesn't keep up with all the technology and
still appreciates the handwritten word. That is an important
thing to remember, especially when it comes to customer service.
Think about it. Do you enjoy getting a card in the mail? Is
it somehow different than getting an email? I know I'm always
pleasantly surprised to get a card in the mail and enjoy it
for reasons I can't really explain. Maybe it is because in the
instant world we live in, I appreciate someone who took the
time to pick out a card, write something in it, stick on a stamp
and put it in the mail. Chances are if you like it, there are
many other people out there that like it. So text away, email
general correspondence, but don't underestimate the power of
the hand written word. I challenge you to think of someone special
in your life and send them a hand written note. It doesn't have
to be long. It doesn't have to be fancy or poetic. Simply writing
"Thank you", "I'm sorry", or "I love
you" can be very powerful. It could bring a smile to someone's
face and make them feel better. So spread some good will and
send someone a note today.
Cheers!
Keep Moving Forward
January 18, 2010
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest
fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light,
not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves,
who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually,
who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing
small doesn't serve the world. We were born to make manifest
the glory of God that is within us. Its not just in some
of us; its in everyone. And as we let our own light shine,
we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically
liberates others.
Unfortunately I don't know who first wrote these words. If
someone does, please tell me so I can give proper credit. I
first came upon this poem several years ago. It was very meaningful
then, but it was filed away in my head (i.e. forgotten) until
a few days ago when it resurfaced. I wanted to share it because
it is true. Who are we not to be brilliant, etc.? When it comes
right down to it, the only one stopping us is ourselves. So
whatever you do in work, as a hobby, on your days off, learn
more about it. Or learn a new skill. The key is to keep learning.
Keep moving forward. For example, I'm currently involved in
my second educational blogging series (both are free). My husband
and I are taking a conversational French class beginning in
March. There are infinite ideas and ways to continue to learn.
At the very least you will learn something. At best, you will
show the world that you are "powerful beyond measure"
and may inspire someone else to be the same.
Cheers!
Writer's Block
January 11, 2010
I went to write this blog post and I had nothing. Nadda. Zip.
Zilch. No inspiration at all. After giving it some time, I came
up with a few ideas but couldn't seem to get the words out.
What's a writer to do when she can't find the words?
Wikipedia describes writer's block as "a condition, associated
with writing as a profession, in which an author loses the ability
to produce new work. The condition varies widely in intensity.
It can be trivial, a temporary difficulty in dealing with the
task in hand. At the other extreme, some 'blocked' writers have
been unable to work for years on end, and some have even abandoned
their careers." This is definitely difficulty in dealing
with the task at hand. I'm still relatively new to blogging
and am gaining quite a respect for those that do it daily. I'm
only doing it weekly, but it definitely is a task. So, I thought,
what better way to break writer's block than to write about
my writer's block. That worked for me. But what about other
methods for breaking down the wall? After reading "Goats
With Coats" to a group of second graders, one frustrated
young writer said to me "Sometimes I just can't figure
what to say. Then what do I do?" It's a very good question!
Here are a few suggestions...
1. If you don't know how to begin, try jotting down the main
ideas of your piece. Then go back and add other thoughts to
those ideas. You will then have the beginnings of an outline.
2. Step away from the computer. Stand up, stretch, go for a
short walk if you can. I find fresh air can work wonders.
3. If you're feeling anxious about writing the piece (or anxious
that you can't seem to get it written), make sure to quiet any
negative self-talk going on in your head. Replace "I can't"
with "I will". Trying playing your favorite, upbeat
music to liven your mood or soothing, relaxing music to calm
your nerves.
4. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the piece, see my blog
post on January 4 about breaking something big into smaller,
more manageable pieces.
5. Remember that your first draft doesn't have to be the finished
product. Sometimes when I'm having trouble with a really technical
piece, I just try to get the important points in basic sentences.
I know that if I can get a draft down, no matter how awful,
I can walk away knowing the hardest part is over. Then later
I'll come back to it with a brighter perspective knowing that
I "only" have to edit the piece. Granted, there might
be a lot of editing that needs to be done, but in my head that
is easier than the original writing part. Sometimes it's all
a matter of perspective.
Funny... that writer's block for this week's blog post is all
gone now. I better start thinking about next week.
Cheers!
"You Can Eat an Elephant..."
January 4, 2010
"...one bite at a time." This quote is from Mary
Kay Ash, and it speaks to breaking down large goals into manageable
amounts. It is a new year and a time when people start out with
their resolutions. Unfortunately, within a few weeks, many of
those people give up on them, but why? One reason is they set
very big goals and then have no idea how to reach them. Whether
you want to lose weight, spend more time with family, get published
for the first time, or move up a level in horse shows, there
are a few well known steps to take when facing a big goal. (They
are well known because they are tried and true. They really
do work!) The first is to write it down. Put your goal in words
or pictures and post it where you can see it every day. Next,
tell someone your goal. Announcing it out loud will make you
accountable to someone. Hopefully that person will tell you
his/her goal so that you can support each other. And finally,
for that big goal, set monthly, weekly - even daily goals to
make it more manageable. What tiny step can you take every day
to succeed and move forward?
Case in point is my goal for 2010 - writing my first fiction
novel. (See? I just put my goal in writing and announced it
to everyone that reads this. That wasn't so hard.) I've had
a story swimming around in my head for 10 years now and have
never started to write it. Why? I see it as a big, imposing
project. I've never written a novel. Magazine articles yes.
Children's books yes. But a novel? That's a much larger undertaking,
and I'm overwhelmed at the idea. (Not to mention the idea of
starting and never finishing.) So, to make this more manageable,
I'm going to listen to advise I received from a respected writer
in the equine industry. He told me to start by writing at least
500 words per day. Now that is something I can manage. Five
hundred words is easy. Doing it every day will definitely require
discipline, but that is a manageable goal. And hopefully before
I know it, my book will be well underway.
So what is your goal? How are you going to break it down? Figure
out those small steps that you can achieve and go for it. Let's
make 2010 a great year.
Cheers!
Prepare for the Tax Man
December 28, 2009
It is the last week of 2009. Now is the time to look ahead
to 2010. Personally I am glad to see 2009 leave. It wasn't a
very good year, and I'm sure many of you out there agree with
me. That leaves 2010 with lots of promise for better days. It
doesn't hurt to get going on the right foot and that means wrapping
up 2009. Horse people might be good with horses, but many aren't
so good with business. If your horses are your business you
need to get it into record keeping shape. The end of the year
is the perfect time to gather your records to make sure you
have everything organized for the coming tax year. The IRS takes
a hard look at horse endeavors to make certain they are a business
and not a hobby, and the more complete your records the better.
B. Paul Husband, an attorney and equine-related tax specialist
based in California prepared some year-end tips for horse owners
that are worth implementing. You can check them out by clicking
here. Good luck and here's to a prosperous 2010.
Cheers!
First Day of Winter
December 21, 2009
I celebrate this day...not because I love winter, but because
after today the daylight will start increasing again. Now I
love daylight! And after 20 inches of snow on Saturday, it feels
an awful lot like winter. The snow and cold make all the chores
harder, but it's important to remember our 4-legged friends
when the weather gets extreme. Even experienced owners could
use a reminder.
From the Michigan Commission of Agriculture (no doubt certified
experts on cold and snow) comes the Generally Accepted Agricultural
and Management Practices for the Care of Farm Animals. Their
basic precautions include:
- Ensuring access to water that is not frozen
- Increasing feed to provide the energy bodies need to stay
warm
- Providing shelter to allow animals to escape the wind and
heavy snow
- Caution around icy areas to prevent falls and injuries
- Companion animals, particularly dogs and cats, are also
impacted by severe winter weather. Animals kept indoors might
have great difficulty adjusting to outdoor winter temperatures.
Other winter precautions for companion animals include ensuring
they have access to water and shelter that is dry and free of
drafts, protection from de-icing chemicals, which can irritate
skin, and no acess to antifreeze, which tastes sweet to animals,
but is extremely toxic. Along with winter weather practices,
another safety precaution includes preventing pets from having
contact with electrical cords. They have the potential to burn
animals as well as start a fire.
I wish you a Merry Christmas, Happy Chanukah and Happy Kwanzaa.
Stay safe and enjoy.
Cheers!
Relieving Holiday Stress
December 14, 2009
What is it about the holidays that makes us so crazy? I know
that every year I tell myself I'm not going to let it happen
again and yet here I am, two weeks out from Christmas and in
a holiday meltdown. I'm not a doctor, nor did I play one on
TV, nor did I stay in a Holiday Inn Express last night. I'm
just a busy gal trying to make it all work. Sadly, I don't do
a very good job, so rather than give you my holiday stress relieving
tips (which apparently are nonexistent), I'll leave that to
the experts. I found this article helpful and encourage those
that are overworked and overcommitted (this time of year or
any time of year) to check it out. http://bit.ly/8yF8Df
Reading to Improve Your Writing
December 7, 2009
In my first blog entry (October 19, 2009), I gave my number
one writing tip, which was to write every day. A second popular
tip for improving your writing that I've seen time and again
is to read everyday. Now, I had a little trouble with this one.
Don't get me wrong. I love to read, but I don't take much time
to do leisure reading. I tell myself I have more important things
to do, plus I never looked at reading as part of my job. It
was something I enjoyed to do in my spare time. Then there was
the idea that even if I read, it wasn't producing income. Admittedly,
before writing Goats With Coats I read many, many children's
books, but the good thing about that is you can read a lot of
them in a short period of time. But when I started toying with
the idea of writing a fiction novel, I began to realize the
importance of reading other people's work. Books in the specific
genre are, of course, very helpful but it's good to read all
sorts of things. The more exposure to different writing styles
the better. Read literature to appreciate the writing greats.
Read popular novels to see what's flying off the shelves today.
Read both fiction and nonfiction to learn the difference in
tone of voice. So I am trying to change how I look at reading.
It is part of my continuing education as a writer. Usually now
I find myself analyzing how the writer forms his/her work. It
really does become more than leisure reading. I'm learning a
lot by reading and all of these published authors have something
to teach me - especially because they have published their fiction
books, and I haven't even written mine yet. So, happy reading.
Cheers!
Picture Perfect
November 30, 2009
I'm not a professional photographer, but I have taken enough
pictures of horses and have certainly looked at enough pictures
of horses, that I know a good picture when I see one - and a
bad one. They say no photo is better than a bad photo, and I
completely agree. So often, I am dumbfounded by poor quality
photos used to sell horses. If you have horses for sale that
need marketing photos, my best advice would be to hire a professional.
It is money well spent to have quality pictures that speak volumes
and can sell your horse. But, if that is simply not in your
budget, here are some tips I've learned along to the way. Some
of them seem obvious, but considering the quality I've seen
over the years, apparently not all people think about it.
1. Take your time. Don't expect to pull your horse out of the
stall, snap a few photos and be done in 5 minutes. Plan on taking
as much time as you need to get the job done right.
2. Make sure your horse is clean. This is one of those obvious
ones, but I've seen sale pictures of dirty horses. Amazing.
3. Try to pick a day when it is overcast, but still fairly bright.
If you must shoot on a sunny day, make sure the sun is at your
back and be aware of shadowy areas that could show up on the
horse. (For example, if the horse's head is turned toward you
it can throw a shadow on the horse's neck and body.)
4. For a full body shot, stand opposite the horse's heartgirth.
If you stand too far forward, it makes the head look too big
and the body underdeveloped. If you want a ¾ shot that
emphasizes the hind end (like what is common in Quarter Horse
photos), take two steps in the direction of the rear of the
horse.
5. Make sure you have both ears forward, and often it looks
better if the head and neck are in a longer, natural position.
6. Typically, the legs are set such that the far (furthest from
you) front leg is slightly behind the closer front leg and the
far hind is slightly ahead of the closer hind leg.
7. Unless there is a specific background element you want to
include, fill the frame with the horse.
8. Speaking of background, pay attention to what's behind your
horse. With photo editing software today, this isn't as important
as it used to be, but it is still best to choose a non-cluttered
background. Simple is good.
Time, patience and paying attention to details will really
pay off in the end. Good luck!
"Have an Attitude of Gratitude"
November 23, 2009
It's Thanksgiving week - traditionally the time when we stop
and think about the blessings in our lives. I'm all for that.
Absolutely. But I challenge you to live your life like that
- not just during the holiday season. The saying "have
an attitude of gratitude" may be a bit hokey, but it is
true. Being thankful for all the good things in your life is
important, but it's most important to remember them every day.
This year is especially true. It's been one of the most difficult
years for so many people, and I'm right there with you. My husband
and I are facing serious financial challenges, not because we
lived above our means or had a risky mortgage, but because I
lost freelance work and my husband lost his job in May. We continue
to deal with serious health issues of various family members,
and we watch as good friends struggle in similar situations.
It is these times that test your attitude the most.
Do you need to shift how you think? If so, I challenge you
to write down 30 things you love/appreciate/are grateful for
about your spouse/significant other or some person that is important
in your life. It's so easy for us to focus on what we don't
like about a person and the things that drive us all crazy.
Instead, take some time to think about what you love about that
person, and then share that with him/her. Be grateful for blessings,
no matter how small. And believe with all your heart that next
year will be better. I know mine will.
Happy Thanksgiving to You and Yours.
Pay Attention to Details
November 16, 2009
I don't care what business you are in. You must pay attention
to detail and focus. If not, you will likely be out of business
soon. I painfully learned that lesson today. I was to meet a
person for lunch, and while we had met before, this would be
the first time we would be able to really talk and get to know
one another. She suggested the restaurant to meet at. I saw
the name of the place in the email and tucked it away. Well,
what I didn't do is pay attention to the "where".
Unbeknown to me, there was more than one restaurant of that
name. So
I go to the place I knew and waited. As I looked
at the menu, I noticed two addresses and that gave me pause.
Finding her original email (thank goodness for my Blackberry),
I discovered that I was at the wrong restaurant. Gasp! I was
mortified! Into the car I ran and off I went to find the other
location. Eventually I did and showed up 30 minutes late. In
my defense, I did try to call her mobile phone, but she didn't
have it turned on. Fortunately for me, she had waited and understood
when I told her what I had done. I apologized profusely for
the mix-up. I had no excuse. I didn't focus on the details of
the email, and I messed us. She respected me for being honest,
and even though I can't take back the poor initial impression
I made, you can bet I will work doubly hard to improve upon
it. We ended up having a good lunch filled with enjoyable, productive
conversation.
So, chances are you will mess up at some point. We are human.
It happens. When it does, it is best to be honest, own up to
it and apologize rather than come up with some elaborate excuse.
People tend to respect honesty. Then, equally important, learn
from your mistake. I know from now on I will pay very close
attention to the "where" and "when" of all
future meetings, and if I'm uncertain of anything, I will ask
for clarification. No more wrong locations for me.
Cheers!
Witnessing Greatness
November 9, 2009
At times, horse racing can be a difficult sport to support.
In a fraction of a second you can witness unspeakable tragedy.
After two years in a row of attending the Breeders' Cup and
watching both Pine Island and George Washington break down and
be euthanized on the track, I couldn't stomach it any more.
As a horse lover, how could I support a sport where this happens
every day? I stopped paying attention to racing other than a
cursory glance at the Triple Crown and Breeders Cup. But then
came this year's Kentucky Oaks/Derby weekend this year where
Rachel Alexandra could've trotted and won the Kentucky Oaks
(G1) and Mine That Bird, the gutsy little gelding, pulled the
upset in the Kentucky Derby (G1). I started to take notice again.
Rachel Alexandra is a big, beautiful girl that went on to defeat
Mine That Bird in the Preakness S. (G1), continued to beat the
boys and is obviously something very special. And then there
is Zenyatta, another incredibly stunning mare with a personality
to match. Her last to first running style is nerve wracking,
never more so than in Saturday's Breeders Cup Classic (G1).
She refused to be denied. As she crossed the finish line first
with her ears pricked, obviously enjoying every minute of it,
tears came to my eyes. It is horses such as Rachel Alexandra
and Zenyatta that make me love horse racing. I have a hard time
expressing myself because simple words do not do these horses
justice. Some people call it the "Look of Eagles"
and other say the "Heart of a Champion". Whatever
you call it, these two are truly magnificent and have an undeniable
presence that I could sense even through the TV. I've had that
feeling twice before around horses. Once was with Secretariat,
who even as an older breeding stallion gave me the feeling that
he could go out and beat the best horses running that year.
The other was being up close and personal to Cigar in the paddock
prior to the Pacific Classic (G1). He simply commanded everyone's
attention. These were the best of the best and they knew it.
Rachel Alexandra and Zenyatta know it too. I hope to be fortunate
enough one day to see them and be awed by their power and grace
in person.
For all of horse racing's problems, these two queens remind
me why I love horse racing. It is because I love horses and
their spirits. This stage allows me to witness their greatness
(and in Zenyatta's case perfection) and be humbled by these
incredible animals. We, as mere humans, should be honored that
they give us so much.
Cheers!
Finding an Instructor
November 2, 2009
The plight of the adult amateur rider is a long and sometimes
difficult one, but it is the vast majority of riders out there.
Many adult amateurs are women who are getting into riding after
raising children or establishing their careers. They are either
late to begin or are getting back into it after many years away.
They want to improve their skills by taking lessons, but how
do you even begin to find the right instructor for you? I've
seen so many people negatively impacted by instructors. In some
cases the instructor is not of good quality, but in other cases
it is simply a bad match. Doing legwork ahead of time will help
avoid these circumstances so I've put together a list of questions
to ask yourself (or your potential instructor). These are my
opinions, by no means a comprehensive list, and it won't necessarily
guarantee success, but it will certainly help get you started.
1. Make sure the person is qualified to teach in your discipline.
This may seem obvious, but since there are no licensing requirements
for instructors, anyone that can ride can hang out a shingle
stating that they give lessons. It is best to do some research
on the background of that person to see if they know and understand
your discipline.
2. The horse world is a small world. Ask your horsey friends
about people you are considering. If you are new to the area,
ask potential instructors for references that you can contact.
Good news travels fast. Bad news travels faster and people will
tell you what they think.
3. Watch the instructor ride because he/she should definitely
be able to ride. However, some excellent riders are not good
instructors. The key to teaching is really communication. The
person might be the best rider around, but if he/she can't communicate
methods to someone else, it's a moot point. At the other end
of the spectrum, an individual may not be the caliber rider
to compete at the highest levels, but they have an excellent
knowledge of the basics that they can easily impart onto beginning
riders.
4. Go to a show to watch the instructor and his/her students
compete. Whether or not you are interested in showing, this
will give you another place to view the instructor in action.
5. Does the instructor have a professional appearance and facility?
This doesn't mean expensive. It means safe and functional. The
person should present herself in a professional manner, although
they she or may not be clean. It's tough to stay clean when
you're a horse person!
6. Is the instructor a good all-around horse person? Do they
have knowledge of nutrition, physiology, first aid and basic
handling? You'd be surprised how many talented riders leave
the rest to staff. There is a big difference between being a
rider and being a true horseperson. You want a horseperson as
an instructor.
7. Does the instructor continue to work with someone, go to
clinics and seminars? I don't care who you are or how good you
are. You can never stop learning. If you find people who think
they know it all, they don't and you don't want to work with
them.
8. Ask if you can watch that person teach. If they don't let
you, walk away. Try to watch a variety of different lessons.
Does he/she tailor the lesson to the individual horse and rider
combo? Does he/she have a wide variety of exercises to bring
out the best in the horse? Does he/she focus on the lesson and
not on what is going on elsewhere? Does he/she keep the lesson
positive and end on a good note?
9. Take a trial lesson. Ask if you can do just one lesson to
see how you work together. Again, if this is an issue with the
person, this isn't the right person. After watching the individual
teach, he/she may look like a good match for you, but you won't
know until you try a lesson yourself.
10. Trust your instincts. If you come away from a trial lesson
with a good feeling about the person and how you get along,
it's probably a good match. If you have any doubts at all, you
may need to try a second lesson or it may not be the right person
for you. That's okay. There are many people out there and the
right one will come your way. Patience will pay tremendous dividends
in the end.
Cheers!
Being Deadline Driven
October 26, 2009
Now that I'm writing a weekly blog I have a new deadline to
face. Writers are very deadline driven, whether it be a blog,
magazine article, ad copy, or chapters to a novel. We have imposed
deadlines that we face, and we're good under pressure. An article
idea can sit on my desk for weeks, but two weeks (or sadly sometimes
a week) out and I'm on it!
The same can be true for the horse world. If you have a show
scheduled you will memorize your pattern, work on required movements,
practice at the required jump height, etc. prior to your show.
But what happens when you have a project without a concrete
deadline? Well, if you're like me it lingers out there in the
"Whenever I can get to it" category. That might be
a month, it might be six months, heck it might never get done.
And the more time consuming we perceive it to be the more we
procrastinate.
I see this often in marketing materials for breeding stallions
and horses for sale. You know you need updated photos and current
video, but it is a time consuming task, and if the horses aren't
exactly being advertised yet, there is no concrete deadline
and the task goes unfinished. Then one day someone calls who
heard from a friend about a horse you have for sale and suddenly
you are scrambling to get photos and video. You end up doing
a rush job, and the quality isn't what you wanted. What's a
person to do? Try a self-imposed deadline. Tell yourself you
want to be able to market your horses by a certain date. Make
it a deadline you know you can reach, say a month or two away.
Write it down in your date book, put it in your phone, post
a sticky on your computer. Whatever it takes to make that deadline
concrete. Then stick with it. Don't let yourself off the hook!
You may find that you get the job done to your standards, and
then you have the proper materials when that person comes to
call.
Cheers!
A Writer's First Blog Entry
October 19, 2009
So I get it. Blogging is where it's at - at least until the
next big thing comes along. It is an incredible way to exchange
information and learn more about virtually any topic. But the
blogger must be a trusted, educated source or else you are basically
doing nothing more than reading someone elses diary. In creating
this website I was told (via many comments on Twitter, Facebook
and, well, other people's blogs) that I needed to do a blog.
I resisted because I didn't fully understand but eventually
came to realize that blogs really can be an effective communication
and educational tool. So I finally caved to the suggestion,
but then came the question of what to write about?
Horses? Sure. Writing? Yup. Writing about horses? Good idea
to narrow the focus. What about writing and presenting to children
and adults? There's another possibility. In the end I will probably
hit on all of those topics at one time or another. Hopefully
sharing my knowledge and experiences will be helpful. Am I a
trusted, educated source? Well, read the "About" section
and testimonials on the website to learn a little bit more about
me and decide for yourself. I hope to also have guest bloggers
from time to time so be sure to check back often.
So, what is today's message? It's probably my favorite writing
tip. Who knows who originally said it (or wrote it), but it
is a classic and one by which writers live. Write every day.
Even if it is only a couple of sentences writing daily is the
lifeblood of being an author. And as such we must practice our
profession every single day. So today I wrote this blog. There.
Done. Now I can go on with the rest of my day.
Cheers!
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